“We learn to do something by doing it. There is no other way. “–John Holt
I watched my son focus for close to an hour as he watched and tried to catch a frog at a local park. He was completely engrossed and working really hard. No frogs were harmed or caught, but it was such an illustration to me of the John Holt quote above. He was definitely learning, analyzing, and using everything he knew.
“If it hasn’t been in the hand and body, it can’t be in the brain.” –Bev Boss
Child-led learning works this way. No agenda from parents or teachers. My son was still learning, experimenting, and directing me how I could help. I was there to help if asked, and to share in the experience. To have a real conversation with him about what was happening.
Right now, while my son is in half-day kindergarten, we still have enough time for adventures. But it is definitely one of many reason I’m leaning heavily toward homeschool next year, when he’ll be in school all day. I can’t imagine not having the time or energy to take him to do these things that he enjoys.
I read so much on this topic, and think so much comes down to trusting our kids. And most people are too afraid to do that. It’s outside what is accepted practice in the US for educating our children. But why? Why is it so hard to believe that kids can know what they need?
And even if we choose that homeschool is the right choice for our family, I think this is still a conversation we can’t ignore. Children learn through play and hands-on discovery. Choosing to opt out of the system isn’t a viable option for everyone and most children are still being subjected to an educational system that doesn’t line up with what we know about how children learn. Parents are the ones who can change what schools look like and how they treat students. No more saying, “Well, I’m not hearing anything negative from my child. So it must be okay.” All our children deserve for us to stand up and challenge the status quo.