Homeschooler at Heart

About a year ago there was a post online discussing school options. Someone there used the phrase “homeschooler at heart” and it really resonated with me. I realized I am most definitely a homeschooler at heart. Does this knowledge mean I’ll homeschool my kids? I don’t know yet.

What it means to me is that I know I could. I know that my kids would be fine without school in their lives. It means I want a life for my family where we spend more time together than they spend with other adults. That my husband and I get to decide how and where we spend our time. It means that I know my kids can learn everything they need to know from me, the other adults in their lives, and outside resources we can access for them.

It comes down to both freedom and trust. Freedom to be in control of my family’s schedule. Freedom to let my kids be kids. Freedom for them to follow their interests in depth rather than learning what’s going to be on a standardized test. Freedom from doing something just because everyone else does it. Freedom to travel if we can. Freedom to discover who they are free from the confines and pressures that come with typical school. Freedom to develop at their own pace.

I trust that my children were born to learn and that they are learning all the time. I trust that when their brains are ready to learn how to read and write, they will learn. I trust that all of us learn best when we are interested in and enjoying what we’re doing. I trust that my kids will learn what they’ll need to be successful adults even without school. I trust my children to make decisions about their own interests and lives and to have a say in what and how they learn.

We have a lot of decisions ahead of us. But as far as schooling and learning go, no decision needs to be permanent and we can always try something new. And there is freedom in that fact, too.

4 thoughts on “Homeschooler at Heart”

  1. I just found this post at random, through Pinterest. I LOVE it. I’m trying to decide whether to homeschool in an area where it is not prevalent at all and would be a very brave decision to make both for me and my family. Thanks!

    1. Thanks, Leslie! I’m so glad you found my post. Check out my other posts, if you haven’t, as I talk about why we’re trying kindergarten as we figure out whether we’ll eventually homeschool. It is such a hard decision, although I really like to remind myself it isn’t permanent and we can change routes if necessary. There is actually a large homeschool community where we live, which is wonderful, and it’s still a hard decision! Good luck!

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